Hey Rodney here,
After dealing with Divorce I wanted to help those looking for a way to salvage there marriage but just don’t know how. Growing up in a divorced household made this subject very important to me. I have found a very powerful resource I want to share with you that has helped thousands of people salvage there relationship from the brink of disaster and busting up there divorce.
Divorce can be very devastating to a family. Dealing with the failure, the disconnect from one another. The kids wondering what is wrong with mommy and daddy. Divorce can also take a toll financially because you now have to think about separation of assets dealing with family and friends about why the split happened and who was at fault. Going through that is difficult to say the least. Then you have marriages that are on the brink of divorce but you really don’t want to see it end. You put a lot of sweat and tears in making your marriage work but you are at your wits end about how to make it work and are looking for some ideas that can put that spark back into your live. I have dealt with this because I have a very close friends who really love each other but they don’t know how to put that spark back into there life. I spoke with a good friend of mine who was also going through a divorce but was able to turn there relationship around. Now if you knew anything about them that was a miracle…lol. So if anything could work for them it HAD TO BE GOOD!
They turn me onto a book that literally changed there lives and that they rave about. They suggested that they try it. So I did a little research on this SO CALLED great resource book. I thought there was some great ideas suggested even thou I was skepitical to say the least because how was a this going to turn around to people who didn’t want to listen to each other let alone stay in the same room together lol. But I was surprised at so many people that raved about the information and technique’s provided(over 50,000 people have used this product in 77 countries) that was different from any other idea out there. So after talking to my friend I suggested that he give it a try they really had nothing else to lose so he said he will give it a try. Well after about 3 weeks I started noticing a change in there relationship they started spending more time together and there was something there that I didn’t notice before. My friend came to me and thanked me for giving him this information because the tips and strategies literally helped his relationship and he now believes that they are on the road to saving there marriage. It is great seeing two people I care about find common ground to make it work. I am highly recommending this resource for anyone looking for help to save there marriage I do believe it can work for you. So many people swear by it and now I can see why.
Taking marriage steps has shown many couples how to have a successful marriage. I was amaze to discover that many people have a lot of marital issue due to the lack of communication, spiritual beliefs, finances, and how they handle conflict. Using any premarital counseling questions allows you to mentally move in the right direction. Marriage counciling works by providing instruction to a fulfilled and balance life. I believe that help for marriage provides insight to ones foundation as well as understanding yourself. Often times preparing for anything can be stressful let alone getting married because all you’re thinking about is being in love. I recommend using Divorce Busters in comparison to Catholic marriage counseling services due to their successful high rating, very informative, and most importantly their compassion for people. Keep in mind a marriage is two people coming into the union of one.
Does marriage counseling work. Yes Marriage councelling can work if both parties are committed to having an open mind and willing to listen to one another and find out where the real problems lie in the marriage. Getting help for marriage is a critical step when both parties are not willing to listen to one another and the marriage is getting out of control.
If both parties are willing to seek help and are willing to save there marriage there is a light at the end of the tunnel. A lot of couples wait until it is too late and there is to much damage that has been done to reverse the carnage. When there is real pain inflicted by one party over another we tend to lash out at the other person to cause damage to them and they in turn lash right back at the spouse with no resolution as to what caused the pain in the first place. Instead of communicating to the spouse what caused the pain they keep it inside or worse yet start talking bad about there spouse to there friends(bad idea! this is another subject for another day). Marriage counseling acts as a buffer between both parties. They are there to try and open the lines of communication again.
A lot of people use to do christian premartial counseling as a way to connect spiritually to what god had intended for a relationship to be between a man and a woman. How soon we forget that the bonds that brought two people together spiritually get lost over time and when there is no communication in the relationship our spirits disconnects with one another breaking the bond that brought you together in the first place. It is critical to reconnect that bond.
So does marriage counseling work? Yes it does and I highly recommend those of you that truly love your spouse and want to make it work to seek help to learn how to open up the lines of communication with one another. Discover what got you together in the first place. So you can begin the healing process and reconnect your spirit to one another strengthening the bond that god meant for you to have.
Divorce busters focuses on how to save a marriage. Are you ready to quit, give up, throw in the towel or are you serious about saving your marriage getting things back on track and making it even better than before. I must admit marriage is a beautiful thing when two people are committed to each other. Life is beautiful, you are madly in love with one another. Before you got married you went to engagement counseling usually with your church or some other outlet and everything just seemed to line up.
You even had your pre marriage counseling questions that you went over with the preacher or counselor to make sure everything is in harmony. Then BAM! The first year went GREAT! The second year was good but not as good as the first year. By year three(or sooner) you start noticing things that started bothering you about the other person. You notice all the little things that person use to do for you they don’t do anymore. Remember the Roses you use to get on the Job just to say I love you. Well he’s not doing those little things anymore that made you think about him all day.
Or what about that sexy outfit you would slip into just to make the mood right hmmm… Now he would be lucky if you wore something nice once a month if at all.
The Divorce Busters method is design to put that spark back into your marriage. I am not going to sit here and lie to you and say there is some magic blue pill and it will all get better overnight. What I can say is marriage takes effort(surprise!) on both partners to make it work. So think long and hard if you don’t want to put any effort into it. There are proven marriage steps that if they are given serious effort will turn your marriage around and put you on a path of getting that spark back into your marriage for many years to come. Making your relationship what it once was and what you intended it to be for your life in the first place.